Irene Alexander, PhD, CLC, ICF Certified Coach



Irene Alexander, PhD, CLC, ICF Certified Coach



Ready to Have an Emotionally Intimate Marriage with your Husband?

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Discover the Ultimate Secrets to Bringing Back the Honeymoon Phase in your 40s and 50s,so that you can grow old together with your husband, madly in love.

Say goodbye to fighting, emotionally exhausting "talk therapy," and feeling bitter, hurt, unseen, and alone.

SAY NO MORE, I'M IN!

You Can be Pursued & Adored All Over Again!

    You are a generous, loving woman and you give SO much, but you want to RECEIVE even more from your husband.

    You know your marriage is sacred and you want your relationship to be emotionally intimate, but it doesn't feel like your husband is giving you enough of his time, attention, loving support, or deep tenderness, choosing you over other things in his life.

    You've had the difficult conversations with him about how he needs to change and improve himself but it doesn't seem like he's taking it to heart and that leaves you feeling even more frustrated, hurt, and alone.

    Even though everyone you've shared your marriage problems with is literally ON YOUR SIDE, your husband still blames you for the relationship trouble and this leaves you wondering whether he's even capable of real change.

THERE'S A SOLUTION!

Here's What I've Learned from Teaching on Marital Intimacy For Over a Decade

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How Your Marriage Thrives

Marital intimacy does NOT thrive by talking about all the problems that you think you have in the relationship.
It's not about identifying all the ways your husband is failing you or why he's too broken to be capable of providing the love, attention, and support you need.
Your Femininity Arouses and Attracts His Masculinity
The truth is that if your marriage is struggling, you're missing each other's deepest emotional needs for love, and this can be repaired, even quickly.
How it's fixed is even more surprising! When you do the seven secrets of lasting intimacy, you'll notice an immediate change in how your husband responds to you.
It feels like a miracle is happening, but it's actually predictable, because you're tuning into how each of you most feels the other's love.
There's literally no reason why you can't have lasting emotional intimacy in your marriage.
It's yours to receive.

Femininity Arouses & Attracts Masculinity

When You Do the Seven Secrets of Lasting Intimacy, Your Husband Will Respond to You in the Attractive Way He Did When He First Asked you to Marry Him
Want to cuddle up with your husband in bed on a Sunday morning and feel his tender love for you?

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The Program Includes

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Your Marriage is Sacred,and YES, You Can Be Tenderly Loved

Create LASTING Intimacy with Your Husband!(not just once in a while, but for LIFE!)

    Do you have a hard time communicating with your husband without it turning into an argument or a fight?

    Do you find that your husband gets upset easily and doesn't talk to you for days?

    Do you find yourself not really getting the full attention you deserve in the relationship?

    Do you feel like you have to be responsible for everything?

    Do you fear that if he doesn't work on himself and his personal issues then the relationship won't work?

    Do you sometimes struggle to connect with him emotionally?

    Would you like to have more joy, ease, fun, trust, respect, and appreciation in your relationship?

    Does sharing with him what's really on your heart anxiety inducing, frustrating or uncomfortable?

    Do you feel like only certain kinds of people can have a fulfilling marriage relationship, while you're left with a man who won't change or step up, and you feel hurt, resentful, and alone?

    Do doubts about your relationship exhaust you, take up your time, and weigh on you?

You have made it to the right place!

Here's the thing:
Marriage is the sacred relationship where you and your husband love each other right in the deepest core of his masculine heart and your feminine heart. It's the way that your ache to be pursued, adored, and tenderly loved by a strong and handsome man who takes care of you, desires you, and fills your heart with love...
meets his deepest ache to be loved by his woman, in the way that only his woman can touch his heart as a man...
It is a joy when he honors your heart and you, his.
If you really dig into why you feel hurt and distant from him, it's because you don't feel his strong and tender manly love for you.
I believe that every woman deserves to feel delighted in, taken care of and deeply cherished in her relationship. And I believe it with everything in me.

Your Desire for a Happy, Tender, Intimate Relationship
is Your Birthright as a Woman...

There are 7 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy every woman should know because when you do them
you will easily attract your husband's protective & tender love for you.
Receiving all the intimacy you want from your husband is not about being pushy, forceful, or telling him about all the problems you see, or denying your own desires. Nor is it about convincing him that he has to do X, Y or Z out of fear that something really bad will happen if he doesn't. Hallelujah.
That kind of communication creates negative effects in our relationships and lives.
What I am talking about is sharing authentically from your own heart.
Revealing your heart to him so that he goes out of his way to support you and make you feel cherished is a beautiful, intentional, intimate act......once you learn to view it--and do it--that way.

I had no idea that the way I was "communicating" was hurting my marriage. I thought that good communication was explaining to my husband why I was so upset and telling him the obvious things that I thought he should be doing. But he would get angry and shut down. Now I know exactly what to do to get my needs met and to bring out his best. It's amazing! Works fast!

~Elizabeth S. 

Here's the Truth: Marriage doesn't have to be hard and you don't have to keep feeling hurt or distant in your relationship


What I am here to show you will change everything.
WELCOME TO...

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I haven't even finished my relationship training yet and I cannot even tell you how much of a game changer adored for life has been for me. Irene Alexander, you are a genius. My husband and I are getting along so well, especially in how we approach our conflicts. What I love the most is having the confidence that our relationship will always be strong. Thank you so much for your work on building strong marriage."

Amy T. 

How the Program Works

Part 1 - The 10 Week Core Curriculum CourseThe Pre-Work

You will start the program with a little heart-centered, soul-based mindset training that will unfold for the first three days. 
You will shed all the reasons you cling to for why you believe your relationship won't work, so you can begin to step into creating the intimacy you long for.
This is your foundation. Solidify your identity as the woman who steps into being Adored for Life.
Release the fears and doubts you have around your relationship. The Pre-Work includes three training emails that unlock over 3 days as well as the "Welcome to the Party" Video you'll get immediate access to upon enrolling. 
Don't skip this! It's more impactful than most entire marriage programs! 

Module 1 - The Mystery of Femininity in Romantic Love

This is all about the Cycle of Intimacy in its Sex-Specific Design. Discover why, as a woman, you both begin and complete this cycle which leads to fulfillment for both you and your man. You'll also learn about the Cycle of Neglect & Disrespect which is the #1 killer of marital intimacy. 

Module 2 - What to Do When Your Husband Needs to Improve

Get ready for MAJOR transformations. In this module, I share exactly what's going on in your heart and your man's that leads to emotional distance. This is probably the most important week in the whole course. I show you exactly how to communicate your needs in a way that inspires him to respond to you, (while also giving up the "communication" that drives him away and leads to either his anger or stonewalliing). In this step, you begin to restore emotional safety. 

Module 3 - If Mama Ain't Happy, Ain't Nobody Happy

Have you ever heard that "love isn't a feeling"? It's complete B.S. Your emotional life and how you feel plays a tremendous role in cultivating attraction and your husband's affection for you. In this step, we identify what gives you the most joy and what the areas in your life hold you back from a deeper and more beautiful emotional bonding.

Module 4 - How Do You Get Your Husband to Do Things?

Isn't this the million dollar question? lol. One time I typed into Google, "How to..." and this was the Number 1 Question that popped up so this is something a lot women were asking! In this module I share a very different approach than the mainstream: "Just make your complaint in an "I" statement." There is one incredible thing residing in your feminine heart that activates his masculine desire to come through for you. This one is a game changer!

Module 5 - The Number One Way to Love Your Man

Lovin' your husband in the way a man was MEANT to be loved takes your relationship to the next level. There are a lot of little things women typically feel are "normal" but actually hurt their man in a deep way. I cover this in detail so that there's no more miscommunication and your man really and deeply feels your love.

Module 6 - Where All Conflicts Come From & Why It Ain't Right to Fight

Most programs will tell you that "all couples fight" but I'm here to tell you not only is that completely false, but the happiest couples know how to influence each other mutually so that they work through issues and conflicts without fighting at all. I show you exactly how to do this and it is life-changing! This module also includes a special section on Financial Intimacy so you feel confident in your finances, and they will never become an area for frustration for your relationship.

Module 7 - The Essential Ingredient to Getting Adored

In this module I share how I realized I was blocking deeper connection, closeness, and intimacy in my relationship, how I realized this, and what exactly I now do differently. It's SO so good. The secret I share in this module is incredibly easy to do, makes you feel so good, and completely makes your man want to do more and more for you. Get ready to get rid of your resentment once and for all, and to open the gateway to a deeper and more profound tenderness. 

Module 8 - Why Women Need Tenderness & How to Get It

Every woman yearns for her husband's tenderness. That's already half the reason why you said, "I do!" In this module I show you exactly what inspires your husband's protective and tender love for you. Imagine that when you share your heart with him, instead of seeing him offer a solution to your problem, he listens with empathy and profound love. Imagine having the emotional safety necessary for him to share his heart with you, so that you build your dreams together. This is quite possibly my favorite module of all and the source of the deepest transformations. 

Module 9 - What to Do When Sex Isn't Sexy

Men and women are different and no where does this appear more vividly than in the bedroom! Your bodies are different; how you become aroused is different; how you experience intimacy in sex is actually very different but complementary! This module is all about understanding what sexual intimacy is, and then guides you into creating it for yourselves. I cover common obstacles that women and moms face, and specific ways of overcoming them.

Module 10 - The Greatest Romance of All

This last and final module takes the deepest dive into the mystery of your feminine ache to be loved as a bride. Why is it that your heart always aches "for more" love and intimacy, and what you can do with your ache. I also invite you to dive more deeply into your divine calling in a way that makes you energized to fulfill your life-purpose in the world. I show you why this is SO key to keeping the intimacy in your marriage that you have created over the last 10 weeks.

Part 2 - Your Personal Coaching Support

3 Months Personal Coaching

Adored for Life is transformational marriage coaching program, where in addition to the 10 week curriculum, I offer you weekly personal coaching support. Every week for the next 3 months, you can reach out through the client portal and share privately to me both your "wins" and also the specific area where you would like to see your next breakthrough.
I collect all my current client's responses and record a new audio addressing your specific challenges, and send it to you. You can listen whenever it is convenient for you, so you do not ever have to rearrange your schedule to get the personal support you need. This method also builds momentum so you start to experience real change very quickly.
You get the benefit of having my eyes on your own unique challenges as well as hearing what I say to other clients working through the program which benefits you tremendously! (Have you ever been in a class where someone asked a question you didn't think of, but then you really wanted to hear the answer to it? Yea! It's awesome). Each client works on their own relationship privately and at their own pace, while feeling deeply understood, supported, and challenged to step into the inspired actions that lead you to being Adored for Life. ;) 
It's SO so awesome. ;) 

ENROLL NOW

1. The 10 Week Core Curriculum Moves You Through 3 Steps

Step 1: ELIMINATE THE DRAMA & GET MORE OF WHAT YOU WANT

Communicate your needs in a way that inspires him to respond to you (while also giving up the things that drive him away), watch how eager he is to please you and come through for you.

Step 2: LEARN HOW YOUR MAN FEELS LOVED

Lovin' him in the way a man was MEANT to be loved takes your relationship to the next level. In this step I also give you the exact framework to approach your conflicts with ZERO fighting.

Step 3: INCREASE TENDERNESS & EMOTIONAL INTIMACY

Every woman yearns for tenderness. That's already half the reason you said, "I do!" In this part of the training, I show you exactly what inspires your man's tender love and how to create emotional intimacy, so he feels free to share his heart with you.

2. You Receive Personal Coaching Support EVERY Week for 3 Months

Every Week for 12 Weeks you have an opportunity to share your current challenges with me privately, and get personal coaching support. The coaching works asynchronously so you don't have to change your schedule to be present for a live call. 

Ready to Smile So Much Your Cheeks Hurt!?!

Like they did in the honeymoon phase!

Hi! I'm Irene Alexander, Ph.D., C.LC.

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PROFESSOR OF CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE &ICF CERTIFIED RELATIONSHIP COACHSPECIALIST IN SEXUAL COMPLEMENTARITY

I'm Just Gonna Say It

I started watching marriages fall apart all around me, even though these really good hearted couples were actively looking for help and "trying everything."
I took one look at the marriage help industry and realized that a lot of the methods they teach are actually exacerbating the problem. Since there is ZERO understanding of male-female intimacy, there is literally no plan of how to CREATE it!
Not to mention the lack of reverence for the marriage vow is deeply disturbing.
So I tuned more deeply into my work as a professor of Christian marriage in the writings of John Paul II, a tradition which honors the way man and woman complement each other sexually in their deepest desire to be loved--and the BREAKTHROUGHS were AMAZING!
Today, I am known for helping women create, keep, attract and receive all the love and intimacy they want from their husband--the very thing, they've always dreamed of as little girls.
I want you to receive more joy and love in your marriage than you can even imagine! I want to give you the practical and spiritual tools to do so.
I've made it my mission to help as many good-hearted married women as I can. I hope you’ll join the movement of building happy, healthy, holy, romantic marriages that honors God's vision for married love (where your man pursues you and you delight in receiving that love!) so that your marriage blesses your heart, your husband, your kids, and ultimately the world!

YOU ARE THE PERFECT FIT

    You are ready to say YES to an incredibly happy and emotionally intimate marriage and you’re open to a new-counter-intuitive way to having that FAST!

    You are ready to say goodbye to fighting, anger, and emotional distance in your relationship.

    You want hands-on coaching support in making this dream a reality ASAP!

FAQs

Q: I'm super busy right now. Is there a time limit on my access to the course content?

A: It is up to you when you start. Each weekly module contains 3 short videos all together approximately 60 min. You have instant access to all of the modules and you have the content and any future updates for life. So you can take the course completely at your own pace. You can come back to the modules anytime you need. You will also receive weekly support emails, "Week __is open" to keep you on track.

Q. Do I do this program together with my husband?

A: No. It is a woman's only program, where you get the life-changing and relationship shifting secrets that automatically enhance your relationship. You'll notice that your husband will just automatically begin delighting you and pursuing you all over again because you'll be in the actual cycle that creates male-female intimacy--a rhythm that women both begin and complete. The craziest thing is that it's not about you "doing all the work." You'll be doing less, giving up what's not working, and follow extremely simple steps that reset the relationship and inspire your man's attractive and profound love for you.  

Q. Are you offering a payment plan?

A: YES! You will find multiple payment options by clicking the enrollment button at the bottom of this page.

Q. What can I expect from this program?

A.: Solutions. Clarity. Inspired content. The exact steps to show you how you can have real emotional intimacy and be tenderly loved in your marriage... and going forward you can have confidence in a relationship you love for the rest of your life. It's an unheard-of perspective that resolves fighting and distance quickly. Progress. Strategies, steps, key phrases to use, and processes laid out for you. Practical procedures and spiritual principles explained. Movement in the direction of your dream relationship. And whatever else you decide to receive. ;)

Q. Can You Guarantee Specific Results?

A: I love this program and I deeply believe in the principles in it as they are rooted in the nature of love between a man and a woman. The success stories on this page are from people who have worked with me through AFL and received incredible results. According to my attorney, I need to make sure I always say this to you: DISCLAIMER: I don't guarantee or warrant specific results. AFL is a Transformational Coaching Program. I do my part to provide the specific curriculum, and personal coaching, and it is up to the client to do the work and take the inspired actions that lead to intimacy.  

Q. What if my husband doesn't want to work on the relationship?

A: This is actually common, but not for the reason you might think. Typically, "working on the relationship" means sitting in front of a third party telling your man why he's failing you and what he needs to do to improve, hoping he'll finally see why you're right. This approach is completely ineffective for intimacy and hurts both your man and your relationship. This is why husbands eventually get tired of "working on the relationship." Note! It's not because he doesn't care about you. Quite the opposite! 
This program is designed to put a halt to the harmful practices in "talk therapy" many consider "normal" and immediately start creating closeness and emotional intimacy in the relationship. Here's the KEY: the way that you show up in the relationship affects how your husband will respond to you. So this program is effective even if (and especially if!) your husband feels burnt out from "working on the relationship." It's hands down 100% the BEST thing you can do for your relationship if you've reached this point.

Q: I am analyzing this decision and doubting myself. Should I enroll in Adored for Life?

A: If you are feeling called, led, drawn, or pulled to the program, I recommend you follow your inner guidance. If you desire to be in this program, trust yourself.

More Questions? 

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Past clients have shared with me that they feel their relationship opened in a way it never has before through this program.They report feeling more confident than ever before that their relationship will be strong.Even their young adult kids found me in real life and said, "I don't know what you've done with my mom, but she's happier than she's ever been in a long time."
I've noticed that as my clients began to receive more of the peace and tenderness they yearned for in the relationship,the happier, calmer, and freer they felt in ALL areas of their life.
In my experience, this is a beautiful energy to have in your most sacred relationship and in your life.
I love this program! If you desire to be in it, it would be an honor to serve you.