Hello my love...

So, I may not know you personally, but I definitely feel like I know you.
You’re tired of frustration and loneliness in your marriage and you know you're meant for more. You dream of more romance, more joy, more peace, more intimacy in a way that feels natural and effortless.
You’ve discovered that to protect your marriage, you have to be intentional about what you let yourself consume.
You have to be choosy about what gets in your ear – and in your head. You know you must make your choices and take your actions from an intentional and empowered place--that takes you where you WANT to be.
In a world of broken relationships and naysayers, you know you cannot just listen to anyone when it comes to your most sacred relationship.
You know you have to keep your mind right. You know you have to guard your heart. You know you have to keep your actions positioned and pointed toward what your heart truly desires...
... beautiful & intimate marriage that lasts a lifetime.
No one gets where they are going by accident.
It takes a decision. It takes intention. It takes dedication.
We have to fill ourselves up with what moves us forward towards our heart's most sacred desire, and reminds us who we are and why our hearts yearn so deeply for intimacy.
You are here to awaken the ache in your beautiful feminine heart and create the kind of lasting tender relationship you desire.

Introducing...

This is your necessary dose of confidence that your relationship can be strong and tender,
with the secret insights and inspiration, the wisdom, methods and the mindsets that naturally help you have a strong and tender marriage—all of the things I’m known for… in your ear… whenever you need it.
Through these exclusive 10 weeks of videos, I’m bringing you fresh perspectives, empowering insights, secrets, and tangible tips to keep you easily attracting your husband's most tender & intimate love.
No matter the situation!
It is my intention to build you up from within. To keep you empowered from the inside-out.
To show you the options you didn't even realize you had, and to inspire you to make your choices and actions from a place that is solidly pro-marriage, giving you your heart's desire for a tender & intimate love.

Why Adored for Life?

Here’s the thing:
Our relationships aren’t built in one moment. They are created in the little moments – the choices, the thoughts, the feelings, and the moves we make throughout our days.
The conscious and subconscious decisions we make.Where do our decisions come from?
Within.
Our internal state matters. What we take in matters. What we ruminate on and marinate in, matters.
How we start our day matters.We have to get our minds aligned. We have to keep our hearts positioned and ready to receive all the love and intimacy we desire.
I want to help you reconnect with your own precious heart...
(*this is the real way to repair your marriage and attract your husband's love for you with ease--not by focusing on what he's doing wrong.)
I created Adored for Life because I know what it's like to feel frustration, not know where to go, who to talk to or what are the key steps to get back to an easy, loving, & tender relationship.
I know what it is to feel scattered and scared and I know what I’ve needed in those moments when I forgot the truth about the power I bring to my marriage and how husband and wife desire to feel each other's love.

I created this program to remind you. Remind you of who you are, how precious and powerful you are as the beloved bride of your husband's heart. .A space that you can tune into, whenever you desire, to tap into the incredible relationship shifting secrets that WORK IMMEDIATELY (in as little as 10 min!), and bring you back into the energy of intimacy.
A place with content that is so digestible, consumable, and something you can take in, move on and run with. There for you now and always when you need it.

Let's Get into the Details Does this Sound Like You?

You have made it to the right place!

Here's the thing:
Marriage is the sacred relationship where you and your husband love each other right in the deepest core of his masculine heart and your feminine heart. It's the way that your ache to be pursued, adored, and tenderly loved by a strong and handsome man who takes care of you, desires you, and fills your heart with love...
meets his deepest ache to be loved by his woman, in the way that only his woman can touch his heart as a man...
It is a joy when he honors your heart and you, his.
If you really dig into why you feel hurt and distant from him, it's because you don't feel his strong and tender manly love for you.
I believe that every woman deserves to feel delighted in, taken care of and deeply cherished in her relationship. And I believe it with everything in me.

Your Desire for a Tender & Intimate Love is Your Birthright as a Woman...

There are 7 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy every woman should know because when you do them
you will easily attract your husband's protective & tender love for you.
Receiving all the intimacy you want from your husband is not about being pushy, forceful, or telling him about all the problems you see, or denying your own desires. Nor is it about convincing him that he has to do X, Y or Z out of fear that something really bad will happen if he doesn't. Hallelujah.
That kind of communication creates negative effects in our relationships and lives.
What I am talking about is sharing authentically from your own heart.
Revealing your heart to him so that he goes out of his way to support you and make you feel cherished is a beautiful, intentional, intimate act......once you learn to view it--and do it--that way.

Hi! I'm Irene Alexander, Ph.D., C.L.C.

I started watching marriages fall apart all around me, even though these really good hearted couples were actively looking for help and "trying everything."
I took one look at the marriage help industry and realized that a lot of the methods they teach are actually exacerbating the problem.
Not to mention their lack of reverence for marriage vow is deeply problematic.
Even a lot of counselors I interviewed secretly told me that their secular training was "sub par."
So I tuned more deeply into my work as a professor of Christian marriage in the writings of John Paul II, a tradition which honors the way man and woman complement each other sexually in their deepest desire to be loved--and the BREAKTHROUGHS were AMAZING!
Today, I am known for helping women create, keep, attract and receive all the love and intimacy they want from their husband--the very thing, they've always dreamed of as little girls.
I want you to receive more joy and love in your marriage than you can imagine! I want to give you the practical and spiritual tools to do so.

I don't know anyone who repairs relationships the way that I do...

I do it by showing you exactly how to honor your man's heart and he yours.
And I wouldn't want to do it any other way.

And I'm here to show you how!

Women tend to have a lot of theories about why their relationship is a struggle.
Once we get to talking. I find out that their theories are usually wrong.
Some believe that their husbands' won't change their bad behaviors and that's the real problem.
Over the years, I have tested this theory, and every time it's wrong. The reason? Focusing on what he's doing wrong and needs to improve is not what actually moves a man's heart to take action and change. It actually makes the situation worse!
Women often get stuck talking about the "problems," sharing how they feel about the "problems" and this conversation goes nowhere.
It doesn't help you connect to him emotionally or arouse him to action.
Even worse, he will likely respond negatively to this approach and then you both feel so hopeless.
What I've found to be true every single time is that HOW women share their hearts in the relationship immediately affects how their husbands respond to them.
And it works every time! That's why I know that...

"He Won't Change" Isn't the Problem

Some believe that he's too damaged from his childhood or has too many personal problems.
Listen! When you know how to keep EMOTIONAL SAFETY in your relationship the specific personal problems will resolve because:
(a.) he will talk to you about them in a way that feels safe and (b.) he will take action on these issues himself without them interfering in your husband-wife relationship.
I've talked to men personally who struggled with childhood trauma, excessive drinking, narcissism, even same-sex attraction, who deeply cared about their wives' happiness, and wanted to do all within their power to make her feel taken care of, supported, and loved.
When women tell me "he's too damaged and that's why we're fighting," what's lacking every time is emotional safety in the relationship, and fixing that depends on you.

"He's Too Damaged" Isn't the Problem

Some women believe they just married a man with bad character.
In my experience, 99% of the time, this is never the case. (I reserve the 1% for criminal activity--and I do know some relationships in this category, so I speak on this with integrity.)
What happened is that your husband disappointed you in some way and it really hurt you.
You felt wounded by this experience.
You began to feel like he doesn't really love you, since when you explained it to him, he did not react to your grief in the way you thought he would.
Maybe he didn't even think it was a big deal!
The more you tried to point this out, the worse he reacted, which began to confirm in your mind that he's a bad man and you made a mistake in marrying him.
Hun, I hear you!
You may not be seeing that sweet side of him lately because your relationship is in a hurtful pattern.
He (unintentionally) hurts you in the core place where you most yearn to be loved, and your attempts to get more from him (unintentionally) hurt him in his core place where he most yearns for your love.
THIS is the pattern which breaks down the love between husband and wife in marriage (in AFL we call it the "Cycle of Neglect & Disrespect") and it can be reversed, even quickly. That's why I want to share all this with you.

"I married the wrong man" isn't the Problem

I teach women how to lovingly attract their husband back into their heart and their world, no matter the circumstance, problem, or whatever reason they come up with for why they think they can't have the relationship they want.
Through my decision to teach this body of work and coach women on their unique challenges, I've witnessed amazing relationship transformations.
I'm talking about really good-hearted women who have felt hurt and lonely for years, all of a sudden finding themselves receiving SO much love, attention, affection, support, and tenderness from their husbands
without their husband's even working on the relationship!
How is this even possible?
Because you're reigniting the Rhythm of Love that leads to the FULFILLMENT of each other's core masculine or feminine hearts.
All while the "marriage help" industry will hear out your problems, watch you and your husband fight, try to teach you active listening or focus on childhood wounds, see that it doesn't work, and then just encourage you to divorce.
Hun, you deserve so much more.
You deserve to honor your heart's deepest ache for intimacy.
I can teach you how to be very intentional with what you say, do, think, feel, and believe and GET READY...
because repairing your relationship will happen quickly.
When your heart is in the right place, when you're open to learning, and you believe that being tenderly loved in your marriage is your birthright as a woman...
Nothing can stop your husband from stepping up to be the hero of your heart.
That's why I can confidently say that I have mastered the art of helping you create intimacy based on the REAL sexual complementarity between a man and a woman.
I know how to help you connect to his heart and he to yours.
I know how to help you get into the energy of trust and confidence that your relationship from here on out will always be strong.
I know how to help you create the emotional safety in your relationship so your husband vulnerably shares his heart with you.

And I do it without "fixing" him or his problems, which he will do on his own.

I am here to demystify the process and methods for you, while guiding you to find the specific ways that feel right for you.
Like everyone else, I tried things the hard way first.
I listened to the industry advice: "just honestly communicate how you feel to your life-partner" and told myself tales about why it wasn't working.
I lacked trust in myself and in what I always knew to be true in my feminine heart.
I had times of cold-awkward silences in my relationship when I "honestly communicated" and it led to feeling emotionally disconnected.
Turns out no relationship ever got better by focusing on what's not working, believing your husband is too flawed, or treating you or your husband like you're just generic non-sexual "partners." That just leads to more emotional distance.
That's not what I want for you.
Now I know this important truth.
Being attuned to sexual difference in the human heart will change your marriage & your life.

Knowing how to inspire your husband's love for you, serves you, him, and your kids, and even grandkids for a LIFETIME.

Marriage doesn't have to be hard & you don't have to keep feeling hurt or distant in your relationship

What I am here to show you will change everything.
WELCOME TO...

An immersion into the sacred womanlyart of being pursued, adored, and tenderly loved in your marriage.
This is a sacred journey!
This is a beautiful combination of practical principles and spiritual renewal.
It's about creating intimacy with intention. 
This is your permission to step into the identity of the woman who is Adored for Life.
Let's eliminate the doubt around your relationship, increase your confidence and conviction that you married an amazing man who just longs more than anything for your happiness and to see you at ease.
...and give you a solid belief system around your relationship to lean on for the rest of your life.
And tap into the Woman-to-Woman practical secrets to create intimacy that works for you and feels good to you.
It's time to share your beautiful heart in a way that draws him in to your world and you his.
It's time to create intimacy in a way that feels so good to your soul, and gives you the freedom to be at ease in each other's presence.
So that your marriage blesses the world!
It's time to share your heart in a way that always pulls him closer to you not away from you, so you can feel joy in your relationship whenever you want.
Because you decided to.
Because you understand the Rhythm of Romantic Love.
How your husband fulfills your heart and you his.
Because you know this whole thing actually works!
Because now you know what to do.
I'm here to show you how.