Irene Alexander, PhD, CLC, ICF Certified Coach
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Hello Beautiful Daughter of God!
YOU ARE CALLED TO BE TENDERLY LOVED IN YOUR MARRIAGE
You Made It to the Right Place!
Your Desire for a Happy, Tender, Intimate Relationship is Your Birthright as a Woman...
And that is why you are here.
To respond to your most sacred God given desire...
to be desired, supported, & loved as the bride of your husband's heart.
You are ready to intentionally create and attract all the love and intimacy you want in your relationship.
You are ready to be romanced and pursued because that is your birthright as a woman.
You are ready to step into all the love, joy, ease, trust, fun, sexiness, and tenderness you want in your relationship
and you are here to receive that with ease!
You are excited to receive your man's wildly attractive masculine love for you, while making him feel like a million bucks at the same time!
You want your kids to see you and your husband still so madly in love, so many years into your marriage,
because you know that's literally the best gift you can give them.
It's what you desire and deserve in your marriage!
And dear, daughter of God, it's yours to receive.
I know you are hurting and it's hard!
The truth is...
There have been times in your relationship when your husband failed to treat you in the way that you deserve.
I hear you. It wasn't right.
There were things he did that were out of your control
and the reality is those things hurt you,
and it hurt your relationship with him.
It made you feel that you can't really trust him.
It made you feel like there's nothing you can really do
until he changes and improves. That's the truth.
But that's not the whole story!
The truth is that you are far more powerful than you even realize...
You are!
And I will prove it to you.
A sign of this is that right now, you're focusing on his behavior and the problems he needs to address...
Because his problems are a source of deep pain for you.
But I am here to tell you the TRUTH that no one, (not even your sister or BFF, or anyone else you've trusted with your heart will tell you.)
Because I love you and above all,
I want you to have your heart's deepest desire.
You have an Incredibly Powerful Influence Over Your Husband's Heart
And when you know how to put it towards creating intimacy
*you will start seeing a dramatic transformation very quickly...*
I'm talking about...he starts softening towards you TODAY!
He begins to recognize his own part in the damage...
and actually apologize to you!
You start moving towards one another emotionally.
No more fighting... just getting closer and closer.
You finally feel like you don't have to take on all the responsibility because he's taking care of you.
I know you think you're the exception ;)
I know you've set the ultimatum and you're demanding that he change.
But the real truth is that this approach is terribly ineffective.
Everyone thinks that focusing on the problem is how you get the solution.
But in LOVE this is not true.
In fact, this approach always makes it worse!
Which is what you're experiencing right now. The worst!
So the question you have to ask yourself right now is,
Are you committed to being pursued, adored, and tenderly loved in your marriage?
If your answer is yes, I can help you.
Your Marriage is Precious to Your Heart...You Deserve a Lasting Tender Love
Create LASTING Intimacy with Your Husband!(not just once in a while, but for LIFE!)
You have made it to the right place!
Here's the thing:
Marriage is the sacred relationship where you and your husband love each other right in the deepest core of his masculine heart and your feminine heart. It's the way that your ache to be pursued, adored, and tenderly loved by a strong and handsome man who takes care of you, desires you, and fills your heart with love...
meets his deepest ache to be loved by his woman, in the way that only his woman can touch his heart as a man...
It is a joy when he honors your heart and you, his.
If you really dig into why you feel hurt and distant from him, it's because you don't feel his strong and tender manly love for you.
I believe that every woman deserves to feel delighted in, taken care of and deeply cherished in her relationship. And I believe it with everything in me.
Your Desire for a Happy, Tender, Intimate Relationship
is Your Birthright as a Woman...
There are 7 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy every woman should know because when you do them
you will easily attract your husband's protective & tender love for you.
Receiving all the intimacy you want from your husband is not about being pushy, forceful, or telling him about all the problems you see, or denying your own desires. Nor is it about convincing him that he has to do X, Y or Z out of fear that something really bad will happen if he doesn't. Hallelujah.
That kind of communication creates negative effects in our relationships and lives.
What I am talking about is sharing authentically from your own heart.
Revealing your heart to him so that he goes out of his way to support you and make you feel cherished is a beautiful, intentional, intimate act......once you learn to view it--and do it--that way.
I had no idea that the way I was "communicating" was hurting my marriage. I thought that good communication was explaining to my husband why I was so upset and telling him the obvious things that I thought he should be doing. But he would get angry and shut down. Now I know exactly what to do to get my needs met and to bring out his best. It's amazing! Works fast!
~Elizabeth S.
You are Ready for Lasting Intimacy in Your Marriage
WELCOME TO...
See Our Powerful Curriculum Below!
I haven't even finished my relationship training yet and I cannot even tell you how much of a game changer adored for life has been for me. Irene Alexander, you are a genius. My husband and I are getting along so well, especially in how we approach our conflicts. What I love the most is having the confidence that our relationship will always be strong. Thank you so much for your work on building strong marriage."
Amy T.
How the Program Works
Part 1 - The 10 Week Core Curriculum CourseThe Pre-Work
You will start the program with a little heart-centered, soul-based mindset training that will unfold for the first three days.
You will shed all the reasons you cling to for why you believe your relationship won't work, so you can begin to step into creating the intimacy you long for.
This is your foundation. Solidify your identity as the woman who steps into being Adored for Life.
Release the fears and doubts you have around your relationship. The Pre-Work includes three training emails that unlock over 3 days as well as the "Welcome to the Party" Video you'll get immediate access to upon enrolling.
Don't skip this! It's more impactful than most entire marriage programs!
Module 1 - The Mystery of Femininity in Romantic Love
This is all about the Cycle of Intimacy in its Sex-Specific Design. Discover why, as a woman, you both begin and complete this cycle which leads to fulfillment for both you and your man. You'll also learn about the Cycle of Neglect & Disrespect which is the #1 killer of marital intimacy.
Module 2 - What to Do When Your Husband Needs to Improve
Get ready for MAJOR transformations. In this module, I share exactly what's going on in your heart and your man's that leads to emotional distance. This is probably the most important week in the whole course. I show you exactly how to communicate your needs in a way that inspires him to respond to you, (while also giving up the "communication" that drives him away and leads to either his anger or stonewalliing). In this step, you begin to restore emotional safety.
Module 3 - If Mama Ain't Happy, Ain't Nobody Happy
Have you ever heard that "love isn't a feeling"? It's complete B.S. Your emotional life and how you feel plays a tremendous role in cultivating attraction and your husband's affection for you. In this step, we identify what gives you the most joy and what the areas in your life hold you back from a deeper and more beautiful emotional bonding.
Module 4 - How Do You Get Your Husband to Do Things?
Isn't this the million dollar question? lol. One time I typed into Google, "How to..." and this was the Number 1 Question that popped up so this is something a lot women were asking! In this module I share a very different approach than the mainstream: "Just make your complaint in an "I" statement." There is one incredible thing residing in your feminine heart that activates his masculine desire to come through for you. This one is a game changer!
Module 5 - The Number One Way to Love Your Man
Lovin' your husband in the way a man was MEANT to be loved takes your relationship to the next level. There are a lot of little things women typically feel are "normal" but actually hurt their man in a deep way. I cover this in detail so that there's no more miscommunication and your man really and deeply feels your love.
Module 6 - Where All Conflicts Come From & Why It Ain't Right to Fight
Most programs will tell you that "all couples fight" but I'm here to tell you not only is that completely false, but the happiest couples know how to influence each other mutually so that they work through issues and conflicts without fighting at all. I show you exactly how to do this and it is life-changing! This module also includes a special section on Financial Intimacy so you feel confident in your finances, and they will never become an area for frustration for your relationship.
Module 7 - The Essential Ingredient to Getting Adored
In this module I share how I realized I was blocking deeper connection, closeness, and intimacy in my relationship, how I realized this, and what exactly I now do differently. It's SO so good. The secret I share in this module is incredibly easy to do, makes you feel so good, and completely makes your man want to do more and more for you. Get ready to get rid of your resentment once and for all, and to open the gateway to a deeper and more profound tenderness.
Module 8 - Why Women Need Tenderness & How to Get It
Every woman yearns for her husband's tenderness. That's already half the reason why you said, "I do!" In this module I show you exactly what inspires your husband's protective and tender love for you. Imagine that when you share your heart with him, instead of seeing him offer a solution to your problem, he listens with empathy and profound love. Imagine having the emotional safety necessary for him to share his heart with you, so that you build your dreams together. This is quite possibly my favorite module of all and the source of the deepest transformations.
Module 9 - What to Do When Sex Isn't Sexy
Men and women are different and no where does this appear more vividly than in the bedroom! Your bodies are different; how you become aroused is different; how you experience intimacy in sex is actually very different but complementary! This module is all about understanding what sexual intimacy is, and then guides you into creating it for yourselves. I cover common obstacles that women and moms face, and specific ways of overcoming them.
Module 10 - The Greatest Romance of All
This last and final module takes the deepest dive into the mystery of your feminine ache to be loved as a bride. Why is it that your heart always aches "for more" love and intimacy, and what you can do with your ache. I also invite you to dive more deeply into your divine calling in a way that makes you energized to fulfill your life-purpose in the world. I show you why this is SO key to keeping the intimacy in your marriage that you have created over the last 10 weeks.
Part 2 - Your Personal Coaching Support
3 Months Personal Coaching
Adored for Life is transformational marriage coaching program, where in addition to the 10 week curriculum, I offer you weekly personal coaching support. Every week for the next 3 months, you can reach out through the client portal and share privately to me both your "wins" and also the specific area where you would like to see your next breakthrough.
I collect all my current client's responses and record a new audio addressing your specific challenges, and send it to you. You can listen whenever it is convenient for you, so you do not ever have to rearrange your schedule to get the personal support you need. This method also builds momentum so you start to experience real change very quickly.
You get the benefit of having my eyes on your own unique challenges as well as hearing what I say to other clients working through the program which benefits you tremendously! (Have you ever been in a class where someone asked a question you didn't think of, but then you really wanted to hear the answer to it? Yea! It's awesome). Each client works on their own relationship privately and at their own pace, while feeling deeply understood, supported, and challenged to step into the inspired actions that lead you to being Adored for Life. ;)
It's SO so awesome. ;)